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Anonymous asked:

I have no idea what I want to do do with my life. Yeah i'm 13. I know that's young,but I'm worrying that if I don't know now . Will I know in 5 years when I graduate? I have no idea what i will do for a career i'm not good at anything, but i'm decent at writing. I just don't know. i can't stop thinking about this. help.

Hello m’lovely, honest answer.. no, you probably wont know what you want to do, you will probably finish school, go to college/ uni/ wherever still unsure of what you want to be. You may decide what you want to do as you grow up, but this idea will keep changing, right now you may want to be a writer, next year a teacher and the year after a police woman. It will feel as though you are driving in circles but you will get somewhere, you will find a career that you enjoy and is right for you. You may think that you have it all figured out when you leave school, but you will probably not be what you think that you will, because very few end up being what they wanted when they were younger. There are so many careers out there that you have no idea about, I mean look around,;there is a job for everything. You feel as though your only skill is writing, but there are so many things that you havent tried yet, so many hidden skills that you will gradually find that you have. In essence I am trying to tell you not to worry, you have time, you will get somewhere someday.

Have a wonderful day

Anonymous asked:

I just want to make sure that you know that you guys really do make a difference to peoples' lives :) Even if it's small, you really are helping so many people. I, myself have asked you questions sometimes and started crying because I realised that there are people out there who are willing to listen to you and help without judging. You are a truly truly amazing bunch of people, I wish I knew people as awesome as you all xx

Hello dearest,

Thank you so much for your kind words. It’s posts like this that puts a smile on our face and inspires us to keep helping everyone. Thank you so much!

Anonymous asked:

I'm a freshmen and I like this senior and he likes me but everyone says he has a bad reputation but I like him anyway and he wants to hang out but I don't want him to try anything... Ugh

hello m’lovely, hang out with him, I mean what’s the worst that can happen? Remember, just because everyone says he has a bad reputation doesn’t mean he really will be. Just keep it casual and have fun, but if he tries anything on and you aren’t comfortable then tell him to stop, if he’s a bad boy then you need to be firm and keep your values, don’t let him smooth talk you into doing anything you dont want to! If he starts trying to pressure you then back away. 

Have a wonderful day

Anonymous asked:

Hi, so my 'best friend' and I are really drifting apart. And it's not like we're mad at each other at all like we still talk and all that but our friendship right now just feels so fake and sometimes awkward and I don't know about her but I really miss what we had cause we were really close at one point and it's like one day it all changed and I dont know what to do about it. She seems happy hanging out with these other people now and I can't tell her not to cause that would just be selfish, idk

hello m’lovely,  a lot of friendships go through this awkward stage, if I’m perfectly honest it’s happening to me and my bestfriend at the moment. As people get older they change and that sometimes means that they lose sight of who they used to be friends with, moving on to spend more time with different people. If you want to get back to being close then try to make more time to meet up, talk to each other more and tell her how you feel. She isn’t going to bite your head off if you say that you feel that you are drifting apart, you never know she might feel the same and it may help your friendship to talk about it. You are right in saying that you can’t tell her not to hang around with other people; however, you can try to spend more time with her, maybe try to make friends with the other people that she hangs round with and join the group. However, maybe the friendship is drifting apart for a good reason, maybe you both have reached a stage where you are moving on in life and just aren’t compatible as friends any more, as you’ve said, the friendship feels “fake” and “awkward”. It is hard to lose a friend, but that’s life, as you move on with your life you’ll make different friends.

Have a wonderful day

Anonymous asked:

I am really bad at feelings (Aquarius haha) and he already knows I care for him more than anyone else. If I can't tell him straight forward then are there ways I could tell him such as friends or notes? How might one go about that?

hello m’lovely, notes are a cute way to tell him that you care about him, or maybe in a little home made card, then he can keep it, as a memory of the first time you told him you liked him. Don’t go through friends, because that just wont be sincere and it can just end badly. I know that you’ve said you are “bad at feelings”, telling somebody you care for them is a scary thing, but you can do it. when you see him next just smile at him and say “*insert name* you make me so happy, i really do like spending time with you”, just little comments and compliments like that will show him that you appreciate him and that you care.

Have a wonderful day

Anonymous asked:

I like this girl and she likes me but I Also like this guy too. The girl lives no where near me as we could only ever facetime and the boy is literally two neighborhoods away. Help?

hello m’lovely, this sounds like a tricky situation and I cannot dictate who you choose. Obviously, with the boy being closer it would make the relationship a lot easier, long distance relationships can work, but they are extremely difficult. You’ve said that you can only ever facetime the girl, which although you do get to see her, you cant really be in the same room with her or just spend time together, experiencing things together. You need to think about who you enjoy spending time with the most, who do you think about the most, who would be the best in a relationship, who wouldn’t care what you looked like when you wake up in the morning in your pj’s, no make up, just eating a bunch of food, because they care more about your personality, who makes you laugh, who do you get butterflies from when you see a text from them? And lastly, which one were you thinking about when you read those questions? I would also suggest to do a pros and cons list, this will show you who you are more compatible with, also, once you have done it you can tell whether you are happy or disappointed with your choice. 

Have a wonderful day

Anonymous asked:

I feel like I am always waiting..waiting for something to happen it never does I'm so bored, Im 16 and just left I have no money so I can't do anything fun I love a the most boring town there's not even an nice places to go a walk! I think I am just waiting to die or some fucking thing

Hello m’lovely, I completely sympathize with you! At 16 you are at the dodgy age, you aren’t a child, but you aren’t quite an adult yet. You’ll be old enough to get a job soon, so fear not on the money front. For the time being however you just need to distract yourself.. meet up with friends, put on your own little shows, find a hobby, read more, do yoga, learn a language, just find something that you like and do it. No matter where you are, who you are or how old you are you can always find something that gives you a purpose, you are waiting for something to fall into your lap and yes sometimes that works, but sometimes you have to go out and make your own fun. I want you to know, that it is perfectly normal to feel the way you do, I mean you’re a teenager, you probably see others going out to parties every night and experiencing the world and you feel as though you aren’t doing that, just make a change and make this year your year, this year you’re going stop waiting and you’re going to live.

Have a wonderful day

Anonymous asked:

I feel stupid cuz I talked to this guy starting at the end of school and we fucked and he was my first and I guess I got kinda attached to him But he left for college recently and we don't tlk anymore and im trying to forget him but I feel miserable.

hello m’lovely, keep your chin up; you’ve finished school, so that’s a chapter closed, you are now moving to a new stage of your life where you will meet new people, new guys, and you are single. You can do whatever you like, be who ever you want. It will be upsetting for a time, but you will move past this and find somebody knew who you will end up falling for and they will reciprocate the feelings. Trust me, we all get a little too attached to people sometimes, it does hurt and you will feel miserable and maybe a little used, but he’s gone and soon your feelings for him will be gone.

Have a wonderful day

Anonymous asked:

My boyfriend told me his mom called me a whore. I've never slept with anyone in my life. I'm really hurt that she would call me that, when she's never met me. Why would she do this:(

Hi sweetie!

Aww, don’t be sad. As what you said, she clearly don’t know you. Don’t get too affected by it. I understand how his parent’s look at you is important but hey, keep in mind that what matter the most is their impression towards you after they got to know you. So keep up. Keep what you are doing right now. Be as decent as you always are and sure she’ll see that you are not what she thinks you are. Cheer up! :)

Anonymous asked:

Hey.Hi.Hello. Anyways I got this guys snapchat and phone number I really like him and he is a new kid. I was snapping him and stuff but I don't know how to start a conversation with him! -London

Hey. Hi. Hello London! :)

Actually, you do know how to start a conversation. Maybe you’re just shy to start it. But a simple “hi”, “how are you” or “what are you up to” is enough to start a conversation. The conversation will keep going and be interesting depending on how you answer each other’s question. And how you react with whatever you’re topic is. :)