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Anonymous asked:

Hello dear ones, id like to hear your advice about the monster heart inside me. The anxiety is killing me.. The fear of losing the man i love actually, thou he always says that he loves me, i cant help myself, i keep worrying even when everything seems fine.. Thanks😘

Hello dearest,

The one good thing about being in a relationship is that you’re not supposed to be so afraid of losing it. You are supposed to trust that it will last. Anxiety happens and its a horrible demon to fight, but just remember to breathe when it resurfaces and create a mantra of sorts. Something you remind yourself: “I am worth love” remind yourself that it will last. If you keep on fearing the worst, you may actually cause it to happen, like a self fulfilling prophecy.

Anonymous asked:

Hi, so there's this guy who had a really big crush on me but I'm not sure I feel the same way about him. I kinda feel like I'm leading him on since we talk everyday, so is there anyway to tell him that I do care about him but I just don't think of him in that way? Please help I don't want things to go far between us.

Hello dearest,
You tell him the exact same way you just worded it. You tell him that you love the relationship that you guys have but you want to make sure you’re not leading him on. He’ll appreciate the honesty

Anonymous asked:

I really need ur help. Im a 17 y/o girl, ive been cutting for quite a while now, and I have to go to a pool party in a couple days. My moms making me go, and I don't want people to see. I've already gone through therapy and it didn't do anything for me. What should I do?

Sometime therapy isn’t for everyone or it could just be that specific one, maybe try a different therapist. I know you’re feeling a lot of overwhelming emotions, but you do have the strength within yourself to stop. You are strong than you think you are. As for you scars, it depends where they are. You could wear a lot of water proof bracelets and anklets and you could say you’re on your period or not feeling well, so you don’t want to swim, but you can still go. Please know that recovery is hard and tiring and it will test you. But in the end it’ll be worth it

Anonymous asked:

I am super mad at my ex-boyfriend for getting back with one of my friends to use that as a rebound because I rejected him. And we all got into a huge fight that ended badly. How do I calm down? And forget it? I'm not inlove with him anymore, but I'm angry at him for doing what he's done. And I'm really angry at my friend too. How do I get rid of the anger and move on? Please help me. :'(

It’s normal to be angry and feel betrayed, so now I guess you need to think if you want to try and patch up you friendship. Because are they really the type if friends you want to have?

Anonymous asked:

Hello you never answered my question! I asked what I should do about my good friend being mad at me because I started talking to her brother unknowingly and we got close and did things physically and she found out and forced us to stop talking and I'm sad at losing him and her. But he won't go against his sister since they're close.

Hello dearest, 

I truly do apologize, our inbox has gotten crazy traffic and I know myself that I typically like to go from oldest to most recent. But I will gladly help you now! So I did read your original question. It wasn’t your fault that you did that. She needs to understand that when it started out, you didn’t know! Tell her. Now the only thing she can feel slighted by is that when you found out it continued. At the end of the day it isn’t her life and she can’t force either of you to do anything. I think you just need to sit her down and explain yourself and how you feel about this. Hopefully she can understand and compromise with you. Also if he let his sister force him to stop talking to you? Probably didn’t fight it all that much. His sister doesn’t control his life, if he wants to be with you and you want to be with him, she can’t really do much about it. Hope this helps darling! 

Anonymous asked:

Hey so my boyfriends gone on holliday with his bestfriend (who is infact a very pretty but slutty girl) and i dont trust her one bit, i trust him with everything but whenever i see her shes trying to make me jelous or flirt with him! I dont know what to do because im scared incase she makes a move on him or something. I love him to pieces and i know he loves me i just dont know if its enough to keep him away from her, any advise?

Of you know he loves you and you trust him, then have faith in him