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Anonymous asked:

i think i like my best friend sometimes. she'll text me and ill get butterflies for a second then remember i have a boyfriend. we are both bi btw. i feel like she understands me more than he ever will because im goth and like a total wreck and depressed and bipolar and he is perfect and has a stereo typical perfect care-free rich white boy life. my bestie has depression too, is crazy like me, understands me, and always says she would date me if we werent besties AND IDK WHAT TO DO THIS IS WIERD

If you like her you should totally date her!! It sounds like she likes you too. :) AND FREAKING NOVILIZE THAT CRAP IT SOUNDS SO CUTE.

Anonymous asked:

A man (22) is probably in love with me (15). He doesn't say it but he says things that are similar like an 'I love you'. But I don't want a relationship. He says that he doesn't care if I'm 15. But I don't want that. How should I say it to him? He trusts me and I don't want to hurt him. (Plus it's weird to say something like 'I don't wanna be with you' if he didn't even say something about relationship) it's confusing. :/

Whenever you feel like he’s hinting on you or making you feel that he loves you, then grab the chance to ask him how he really feel about you and if you confirmed that he loves you like you said, tell him that you don’t want something more than friends. Whether you tell him that you don’t want a relationship or you just wanna be friends, you are going to hurt him. You cannot avoid it because he already has feelings for you.

Anonymous asked:

In the past couple of days, two people I really care about are trying to kill themselves. One of them said it was my fault, but the thing is he is my ex.. On top of that my brother is being physically and emotionally abusive to me .. Saying that I mean nothing to him , that my mom should've gone through an abortion with me and calling me so many rude names... I've been really depressed and it's starting to be waay to much to handle . Help me please.

hello m’lovely, it is not your fault what they choose to do and what they feel. I repeat, it is NOT your fault. It must be very upsetting to have to deal with people very close to you feeling down and trying things, but you need to look after yourself. Sit your ex down and tell him that you are sorry that it didn’t work out and that you wish him the best for the future and then cut him out of your life. This is far more difficult to do with a brother and although he may not mean to say the things that he does you still need to address it, so that at least he can know that it’s hurting you. Sit him down and tell him that you understand he is unhappy and that you want to help but he can’t drag you down with him. It’s a lot for one person to handle and you are going to have to be very brave for a while. There are some things that you can do that I feel are essential:

1. Talk to both boys and tell them how they are making you feel
2. Tell a friend/ family member what’s going on so that when something happens you have someone to talk to.
3. Go to the doctors, they will send you to people who will listen and will try to help your family get through this difficult time
4. Look after yourself, try to shake it off and stay positive
5. Make sure you surround yourself with people to talk to and help lines, you can talk to people on 7cupsoftea (just type that into google) or send me a message, I’m always here to help, either on this account or on 
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Have a wonderful day

Anonymous asked:

I like this guy but he's 27 and I'm 19, is that weird? Hes very mature and so am I so i feel like we could work.

Hello m’lovely, it depends on how you feel to be honest, yes there is an age gap, but on the other hand you say that you like him. The key thing is to make sure that he doesn’t pressure you into anything, which may seem obvious, but sometimes people forget that just because they care about someone they don’t always have to do things that the other person wants. If you think that it can work then don’t hesitate and just go with it, you never know what might happen if you don’t take the chance.

Have a wonderful day