Need Advice?

lazymusicianboi: Hi, I’m a guy and around 8 months ago I was dating this girl and it didn’t end well, she basically blocked me because I didn’t wanted to listen to a song she sent me. Some days ago I uploaded a picture and she liked it, after 8 months of no contact and ending things badly. Is it a hint for me to contact her? Wouldn’t I loose my dignity by doing that?

Hello sunflower, don’t think about it as a matter of pride. What do you want? If the answer is you want this person in your life, then go after them. I don’t know on whether her liking a picture is a hint, but if you want it to be, use it as an opportunity to spark a conversation. Dignity be damned.

3:35 am • 5 November 2018 • 12 notes

Anonymous: I have a friend who has very low self esteem. She’s married to a guy who she just found out cheated on her and may have gotten a girl pregnant. Here’s the thing. Before they got married he told her he could have kids. So now he may gotten a girl pregnant. She message me saying she thinks he lied cause he doesn’t want to have a baby with her and she’s going to give him another chance. I want to tell her to leave him cause he’s a loser, but I don’t know if she’ll listen. What should I do?

All you can do is advise your friend as you have, but ultimately you can’t make the decision for them. If they decide to stay together the only thing you can do is love and support your friend and be there for them. This doesn’t necessarily mean you have to support their decision, but you can still be there for them and support them.

12:46 pm • 21 July 2018 • 1 note